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Self-Love Coaching

There is a genuine feeling of confidence that washes over you when you learn to love yourself fully and completely because to truly know yourself is to love yourself. 

 

Many women (and men) work with me because they are tired of trying to survive and feel an inner loneliness and disconnection. 

 

Some are also in unhealthy/toxic relationships that have been so damaging to their self-esteem yet they are unable to break it off completely even though they have tried many times.

 

Intellectually we know we deserve better but somehow things never seem to change. 

 

That is where my coaching can help you because I can see where you are unable to see. 

 

Self-love is the source that transforms your life including your relationships. This is possible for you!

 

I am here to help you on your healing journey.  How can I help you best?

I had the opportunity to meet Iris through my previous job. I knew as soon as I met her that we would one day work together. As a coach, Iris offers many gifts. Her spiritual and intuitive approach brings a unique style to her work. In many of our sessions I experienced profound shifts and realizations. Her coaching and mentorship was very transformative in both my personal and career development. Iris has a heart-centered and grounded approach that creates a safe, non-judgemental space. She also offers many packages to meet client’s specific needs and goals. I would not hesitate to work with Iris again and will look forward to that day.
Amy
Artist, Vancouver Island, BC

Anxious - Ambivalent

The Anxious - Ambivalent Attachment type has learned to anticipate rejection or abandonment. This type is vigilant in looking for signs that people they care about are losing interest in them. They relinquish and immerse themselves into their partner in the attempt to anticipate their partner's wants and needs, oftentimes at the expense of losing themselves.

Avoidant - Dismissive

The Avoidant - Dismissive Attachment type has learned to be solely contained within themselves and does not rely on others to meet their needs. They are independent, self-sufficient, and have a strong belief in their self-reliance. They do not look to others for comfort or support.

Fearful Avoidant - Disorganized

The Fearful Avoidant Attachment type is the most complex of attachment types. This type shares the extreme highs and lows of both the Anxious - Ambivalent and the Avoidant - Dismissive. They crave closeness and connection, but if their partner gets too close, they'll push them away, often with explosive energy.

Secure

(The most common of the attachment types) The Securely attached type has learned that it is safe to be open and express themselves in relationships. They can set healthy boundaries, to love and respect themselves, as well as others. They can rely on their partners and have their partners rely on them. They can efficiently resolve conflict in relationships, focusing on the solution rather than the problem.

If you are unsure what attachment type you are, please take my quiz to help you better understand yourself.

Before embarking on our one on one coaching sessions, I offer a complimentary consultation. The initial consultation will give us both an idea of what you are looking for, to address any of your concerns, and to see if we will be a good fit together.

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Find Your Self Worth

Lets take a short quiz to learn about you! 

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Leaving a relationship you are unhappy in is a big decision especially when you have invested so much of your energy to try to find happiness in it. There is a part of you that still wants to try to make it work but you have tried everything. There is also a part of you that's ready to end it but you fear the heartache and the unknown. It's consuming your every thought.